Pluviophile

“Rainy days can find peace, happiness and passing of storm, which may turn to claim”

We all have been dealt with storms and still dealing with various storm. It might keep hitting inner peace or happiness. Sometimes, felt like having Rainstorm in the mind & heart, which destroy the peace. Here, we start the quest of peace.    Finding peace and happiness is an art specially in hard time. In case we are aware about our inner strength and keep rewarding yourself through this inner strength. This way will take you to correct path of getting, own secret of happiness, peace & joy.   Getting “Peace” is like own reward. However, peace is not always the highest goal in the life for many people, still it is the most basic requirement of life. Recognize the strength to stand strongly and to find the own secret of peace, happiness even you are going through the creepy rainstorm.

“We all have an unsuspected reserve of strength Inside, that emerges when life puts us to the test”

Love and peace of mind do protect us. They allow us to overcome the problems and teach us to survive, to have the courage, to confront each day and to live happily. It cannot be kept by force, it can only achieve by own understanding. There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another page and simply go on.    We are here to enjoy the rain not to get depress and treat it as creepy rain storm. Always remember, “Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger but they will never be you”. You don’t have to be perfect, very rich, famous and very successful like CEO or Founder of the organization. Just be the CEO and Founder of your happiness & peace. You need to be happy and know how to create happiness for you as well as for others. You need to know, “how to maintain the work life balance”. You should have fun in life with your love once and be fun loving always. You need to know, how to deal & manage people with smile and claim. You need to identify your passion, to get refresh. You need to maintain the inner peace in your life. You need to know, how to enjoy the “Rainy Days” intend of looking it as “Rainstorm”.   “Life’s not about for the storm to pass…It’s about turning the rainstorm in to the beautiful Rainy days.”   Just like turning the hard time in to the Joy full & happiness, as we feel its’s rainstorm instead of rainy days. not able to get the manning of life, still we say that, its life which include both storm & beautiful days so why not, we can turn all the storm into a beautiful rain day. This is possible without any perfection, without being so famous and rich. Just apply the best possible course of action you can with the smile in your face.   Rainy days or Rain storms both are natural and we are so blessed to have the magic of nature, the source of happiness, and the gift of god as a life. Let’s enjoy each moment without disappointing nature with the inner source of strength.      The Quest for Peace   Let’s look deep into nature, seems wonderful portraiture. No matter where you go, It’s; always like a greeter. Sunshine and the rainbow Rainy days, hanging sloe Peace joy & happiness, are; blessing to all of us...!!  By nature.   We should connect with nature. In search of peace full journey nature also plays a vital role in claim mind. In case we are only talking about practical daily life, which is fast and flies. So go with a slide different approach along with the claim.  Finding inner peace in this era is a significant challenge for maximum people. But there is always a way to maintain it. Keep managing silence and avoiding things will also not help to bring things in place. since, it does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be claimed in your head and heart. You can’t avoid entire nature for peace.   To help, here are ways to experience inner peace and enjoy life on a deeper, more satisfying level,   ü  Look for the beginning in every ending. ü  Every challenge comes with various opportunities. ü  Try to avoid controlling things and changing people. ü  Keep very low all the expectations from others ü  Keep high the behavior of acceptance for others ü  Start enjoying every small thing in life. ü  Stop comparing yourself with others. ü  Learn to deal with people & solve issues on own. ü  Need to have “Me Time “in a day. ü  Start enjoying nature, rain, sunshine rainbow, and the sound of rain as music. ü  Go with all the activities which make you claim, relaxed & happy.   Every next level of your life will demand a better version of you that doesn’t mean you need to be a perfectionist. it is about learning from your experiences, and implementing and executing the experience of life for your betterment. It will lead to take better & practical decisions in life.   Now, when we talk about maintaining and balancing peace or joy we need to also talk about the right approaches in life. First to know how to break the trouble and move towards secrete of own happiness with a realistic approach.   Practical Approach of “how to be a Trouble Breaker” If you know how to deal with storms in life, it defines you as a successful person.  Dealing with problems successfully is like rewarding yourself with peace. It has been famously said that let’s not talking about the problem, only focused on the solution”. Practically it is not the correct way to deal with problems. In case, we don’t understand the problem, how do we know the suitable solution for the same. So, let’s talk about the real world and the problems, people face in life: “Someone, who was your support system is not there anymore”, “Nothing looks good, things are irritating” “You hate working more than 9 hours in a day” “Not able to impress people, and getting rejected” “No one loves me, everyone hates me”  “Huge presser of making career or career growth”  “Your family is going through a lot nowadays” …….and many more practical issues.   Here, we need a practical approach to understand the problems and take the first step toward a solution. What could be the best possible solution which will be like a win-win for all aspects, and would help to solve your problem? You may not be able to solve a few issues like working 9 hours in a day is mandatory for employees as per company policy.  What is the best possible solution, here we go ……!! Balance your work life with a mandatory break in 3-4 hours, Pursue a hobby in a day. Have good connections with peers to laugh out loud, Have a favorite meal with your favorite people during lunchtime. Have a coffee/tea break to refresh your mind. Have nice & transparent conversations. Watch something which makes to laugh & happy. Read something which is inspiring & refreshing. And the best option is the turn the passion or interest into the profession. In case you are not able to turn passion into a profession, that is not an issue, you have been gifted with this beautiful life by god. Make it more wonderful, understand your own secret of happiness which only you can figure out. It can only understand & analyzed by you for yourself since it’s your beautiful secret.   The formula for solving a problem is just to identify the issue and apply a practical approach toward a solution. Which is the best way to resolve the problem along with peace, claim, happiness & lot of fun.   Same way impressing people should not be objective, making them laugh and creating happiness around everyone is objective. So, don’t impress people, just make them happy to have you as a company. And rejection will come with learning so you never lose either you learn or you win.   The next problem mentioned as, no one loves me, appreciates me or likes me. You need people to pamper you love you appreciate you. Practically, we need all this in life but better not to have thousands of people who might not even love you by heart, just pretending to love you. Hence better to have the attention of parents or a few close ones who love you by heart. not compare you with others, accept you the way you are, and appreciate you for small achievements of life. In case you are able to love yourself and not needed others to love that will be the best approach to satisfy this emotion of less love.   Never get the pressure of growing, running, walking, and flying fast in life. Enjoy the moments, and nature and move step by step, which will take you through great experiences, learnings, and growth.   Let’s find our own “Secrete of Happiness”   The secret of happiness is, like; going for a long drive, making me feel so alive in the beautiful drizzling having a coffee hot & sizzling. Each drop of rain comes with music to my ears, getting; wet can never be fear. The grass is greener on another side. Air is blowing in the speedy ride. Life is a play to be part of, with lots of love deep in sight.   And here we reach in the search of our own secret of happiness. Everyone has their own choices, the same way, people have their own secrets of happiness. Introverted people might not share or extroverts might share, so it can be similar or different. But secret exists There are unsaid unexpressed things that exist, which might come as a secret of happiness for anyone.   Let's again apply some realistic thought to figure out the secret of own happiness. Here we don’t have to climb the big mountain or deep river to swim. Just analyze the factors, which make you happy in daily life. May be, a gap between your likes or dislike?   The gap between What you should do? or What are you actually doing? The gap between What you are doing? or What you wanted to learn to do. The gap between What your passion is? or What your profession is? The gap between What you like doing? or What you Love doing?   Interlinked things, which can be divided into four-part 1.     Passionate. 2.    Just a profession for earning money. 3.    Have interest but don’t know how to do it, hence wanted to learn. 4.    I love doing it making me feel good.   your secret to happiness can easily figure out but these choices will be for a very long term or a long period not for short period. Firstly, identify things that create happiness in your life, relaxation to your mind, and bring claim & peace in life.   Things that might divert your mind and take you into another beautiful dreamy world for a few hours. This is so relaxed & claim, at the same time seems like partying on your head with peaceful music.    Getting your own secret is so easier than meditation for the next few hours. And also, the fact of meditation is a part of the quest, for peace, and a dreamy world, where everything is so beautifully arranged. Like raindrops at the glass of the window and surrounded by graceful nature, green grass, red roses, blue sky, and singing birds.   Meditation is another heavenly father. It is the process of connecting to heaven where you see the world is so wonderfully created with full of natural beauty and the blessing of god. Golden river, golden rainfall, and the golden raise from the god's eyes. Everywhere happiness, joy, and peace.   This is inner you and the path of finding happiness from inner you.   “You” are the most secretive, loving, and wonderful people who can create happiness, joy, and peace in your own life, because your” inner you” know the path of inner peace, happiness, and joy. You can also share the same joy with your love once. “Free as a Bird”   Let me spread wings, let me learn to fly in the blue high, let me offset the sky   Let me sing, let me dance In the rainy night, let me a chance   Let me get wet, let me get dry In the whistling rain, let me run by   Let me be waves, let me a deep sea In the windy air, let me be flee   Let me not hide let me show my skill Free as a bird settle where ever I will   “A Free Bird” define the freedom of an individual. And freedom may define the free soul. The meaning of freedom is a free mind, free soul, free heart, free life ….!! It brings peace happiness and joy to this beautiful journey. Let’s experience freedom like a flying bird. This is also a precious gift of god to have in life. Everyone is not blessed to have this gift in their life. It is an indispensable source of happiness, power, strength, and belief in yourself.   “A Free heart, a Free mind, a Free soul brings inner peace and joy “   We are not a bird and we are human being that has their own independent will. True freedom comes through listening to your heart and claim head or mind. Never give up your freedom to be yourself for the idea of the person that you think you should be. You need to choose to be free, regardless of what anyone else thinks you need to do. We have the power of free thinking in this power, we find true freedom.   Many people live their lives without truly knowing, who they are from inside and what they want from life. Knowing what you are is also interlinked with what you want from life. Living as who you are is the highest form of freedom you ever going to get in life it will initiate peace joy happiness and freedom who we are looking from so long. Entire life is a journey to get closer to knowing who we are. Find your freedom, peace, and happiness, and live in your wonderful truth. https://www.amazon.in/Pluviophile-Mahwash-Ali/dp/9391302327/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3JNP5TB17M4IO&keywords=pluviophile+book&qid=1658948604&sprefix=pluvi%2Caps%2C222&sr=8-1   Proud Co-author of an Anthology - " Pluviophile" would like to share the book which is available in Amazon prime in hard copy as well as kindle format.